taiWelcome! I’m Tai Fenix Kulystin (previously known as Scarlet Lotus), I am a queer fat genderqueer polyamorous switch and my pronouns are they/them. This blog is my personal exploration of gender, sexuality, spirituality, kink, and the joys and pitfalls of an overanalytical nature.

Outside of this blog I am currently finishing up a Master's degree to help me launch into my career as a Gender & Intimacy Coach and Somatic Sexuality Educator. I am passionate about working with people of all bodies, genders, sexualities, and relationship styles to help them move toward experiencing the (sex) life of their dreams.



Corseted (HNT)

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I was feeling like a change, thinking of cutting my hair, and although it’s not a major change I did part my hair on the side instead of in the middle (shockingly different, I know), but I also did myself up all pretty with makeup, though the eye detail is hard to see because of the glasses, but I’m okay with that.

I haven’t been able to fit into this corset for two years, and I barely got into it now, but I did get into it (with Onyx’s help), which made me feel very good. I was going for a sort of 50s pin-up type look, but that didn’t come across with the shawl, but I have a thing about showing my arms, especially my upper arms, I blame my dad for that, so I had to cover them up with something. I really like purple, gray, and black together, though, so I think it works.

I have nothing great or profound to say, except simply being happy that I can fit into the corset again (kind of), and I’m hoping that I’ll be able to fit into my cherry blossom underbust corset again soon. We can hope! It’s my favorite. I’ve got lots of posts lined up, I just need to write them. In the meantime, enjoy my other favorite pictures from me in this corset that I love and haven’t worn forever.


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8 Responses to “Corseted (HNT)”

  1. Atrion says:

    Lookin good in that corset, even with the shawl it looks good, but I am sure you look fine without it to :) ps. benn liking your blogs since I started following you on Twitter .

  2. Coy Pink says:

    Seeing your smiling face made *me* smile. You’re beautiful and that corset is so lovely. Makes me want more! Must shop…

    Coy Pink’s last blog post: HNT – Red, white, and blue

  3. Elizabeth says:

    OMG drool!! You look gorgeous!!

  4. Bevin says:

    I have a method to unearth your upper arms. It’s crucial to fat activism, I think.

    Also, you look radiant. And your hair looks great. It’s a subtle but good difference.

    Bevin’s last blog post: Episode 5.5: Femme Conference Part 2

  5. Ang says:

    Wowza!!! I want a corset like THAT! Beeeeeyoutiful!

    Ang’s last blog post: HNT For Old Time’s Sake

  6. Amber says:

    Hot hot hot!

  7. @Amber Thank you, sweetie!


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