taiWelcome! I’m Tai Fenix Kulystin (previously known as Scarlet Lotus), I am a queer fat genderqueer polyamorous switch and my pronouns are they/them. This blog is my personal exploration of gender, sexuality, spirituality, kink, and the joys and pitfalls of an overanalytical nature.

Outside of this blog I am currently finishing up a Master's degree to help me launch into my career as a Gender & Intimacy Coach and Somatic Sexuality Educator. I am passionate about working with people of all bodies, genders, sexualities, and relationship styles to help them move toward experiencing the (sex) life of their dreams.



A Holiday Bunny Giveaway

As my last (and first ever) giveaway is coming to a close (ends tonight at 11:59 PST), it is now time to give away the second toy those wonderful generous people at Babeland have bestowed upon me this holiday season: an Elastomer Rabbit Habit

That famous bunny from Sex and the City, only phthalate-free! The Elastomer Rabbit Habit is “sheathed in 100% premium Elastomer, a high-quality material that is both latex and phthalate free” so you don’t have to worry about phthalates, though it is still slightly porous so it shouldn’t be shared.

So, how do you get your own Elastomer Rabbit Habit, you ask? Simple. Comment below and tell me something new (sexually) you want to try come the new year. Deadline is Friday December 26th at 11:59pm PST.

Not your thing? That’s okay! I’m going to be doing reviews more frequently in 2009. My next one will be on Pleasurists, a kinky way to ring in the new year!

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13 Responses to “A Holiday Bunny Giveaway”

  1. May says:

    I wanna try double penetration. I just saw a nifty toy for that the other day while browsing for my baby’s Xmas gifts and I will be working up to try that now.

  2. Kathryn says:

    In 2009 I am entering into a D/s relationship where i am the D and he is the s. I am also going to try strap on anal with my new sub. I am really stepping out of my box in 09.

  3. Heidi says:

    I am definitely up for trying DP this upcoming year (with a toy + partner, not a guest + partner). I would like to get new toys in a couple of sizes so my partner can choose if he wants to take the front or the back.

  4. Kat says:

    actually i am just newly interested in expanding my sexual horizons – so i thought a sex toy would be a good first step. plus – it’s the color of my joy!

  5. Beautiful Dreamer says:

    I want to allow myself to have my ankles tied down. I’m a little nervous about having both my wrists and ankles restrained, but I want to in the worst way.

    Beautiful Dreamer’s last blog post: Pleasurists #8

  6. amanda says:

    I want to try lots of new things, lots of kinkyness since i’m shy! I want to try new toys and positions

  7. fleur says:

    I would like to invest in a riding crop or flogger and teach my boyfriend how to use it!

  8. April says:

    I want my boyfriend to blindfold me and restrain me to the bed. Then I want him to tickle my body with different things, and he would make me guess what they were. If I guessed wrong, he would turn me over and spank me. I’d love for him to feed me while I’m laying there completely helpless. I want to feel his hands all over my body, not knowing where or what he was going to do next. I’d love for him to penetrate me, in any orifice he wanted, with his fingers, penis or toys. It would be even more interesting if there were an extra set of hands touching me. I wouldn’t know who they belonged to, obviously, which would add to the excitement and anticipation. I would be ok with them belonging to a male or female. Actually, a female would be better. I could feel her soft hands and lips kissing my body and have her please me with toys. I want to lay there for hours being teased and pleased and not able to see what was going to happen next. That’s definitely something new I want to try next year. =)

  9. MarlaSinger says:

    well, as much as I would love to say that I’m going to be trying DP next year, I haven’t really thought of it, although it sounds quite yummy. You know that I’ve been itching to do sex toy reviews for the longest time, and I think that this would be the perfect toy for my first review. It would not only rock my world, and my blog, but I could use that review as a sample to give to online toy companies, and hopefully start a review of my own…in which I could give stuff away too!

    Not to mention, if given the chance, I would totally use it for DP, hell, I’d use it for a semi-gang-bang-dp kinda scene with Jay in the coming year…

    When/if I did that scene, you would SO get pictures, hell, I’d take pictures of me playing with it for you anyways!

  10. Queen Bitch says:

    I have recently discovered I like anal play. 2009 will be the year of trying every kind of anal toy I can think of!

  11. RB83 says:

    I would like to try DP with my wife…me+toy… And I want her to peg me with a larger toy than the one we now use (feeldoe). Hmmm, nipple clamps might be fun… a flogger, can’t forget the flogger. We pillow talk about adding a lover to our bedroom – dare we try that?

    See what you’ve done? Now you’ve got me going…and going…and…

  12. Amethyst says:

    in the coming year, one of my general resolutions is to try and incorporate trust and intimacy into all of my relationships. in terms of sex, this means…i want to try sensory deprivation and start working my way into some light bondage! what greater act of sexual trust is there?

  13. toygirl says:

    I’d like to try anal play this year. I’ve been pretty scared of it, but I think I’ve worked myself up to it!

    toygirl’s last blog post: Merry Christmas!


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