http://ofpleasure.com/2008/11/20/fallen-into-place/ A genderqueer fat queer poly switch exploring gender, sexuality, and the pitfalls of an overanalytical nature. Mon, 28 Nov 2011 09:07:40 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 http://ofpleasure.com/2008/11/20/fallen-into-place/comment-page-1/#comment-969 The Femmeinist Fucktoy » In the Year 2008 Fri, 02 Jan 2009 08:30:37 +0000 http://ofpleasure.com/?p=1244#comment-969 [...] Onyx and I tried very hard to make our strict O/cp relationship work, and when it didn’t seem to we tried switching, which does seem to work. [...] [...] Onyx and I tried very hard to make our strict O/cp relationship work, and when it didn’t seem to we tried switching, which does seem to work. [...]

]]> http://ofpleasure.com/2008/11/20/fallen-into-place/comment-page-1/#comment-967 The Femmeinist Fucktoy » November in a Glance Mon, 01 Dec 2008 19:44:21 +0000 http://ofpleasure.com/?p=1244#comment-967 [...] and my three year anniversary of our collaring came and went, which made me ponder about where our relationship has come from and is going to and what significance our collaring has [...] [...] and my three year anniversary of our collaring came and went, which made me ponder about where our relationship has come from and is going to and what significance our collaring has [...]

]]> http://ofpleasure.com/2008/11/20/fallen-into-place/comment-page-1/#comment-968 dominadoll Thu, 20 Nov 2008 12:13:25 +0000 http://ofpleasure.com/?p=1244#comment-968 It is an interesting dynamic. We are not all molded the same, and therefore trying to fit your relationship with the "ideal" or fantasy doesn't work usually in reality. With any relationship we have certain expectations of what it is supposed to be like, but as your grow, your needs and wants change. It is good you are both evolving, because that's what life and relationships are. If you could only split yourself into the many variations of your persona and have each one play their own part. But, that's what makes you unique and wonderful is the complexity of your nature! It is an interesting dynamic. We are not all molded the same, and therefore trying to fit your relationship with the “ideal” or fantasy doesn’t work usually in reality. With any relationship we have certain expectations of what it is supposed to be like, but as your grow, your needs and wants change. It is good you are both evolving, because that’s what life and relationships are. If you could only split yourself into the many variations of your persona and have each one play their own part. But, that’s what makes you unique and wonderful is the complexity of your nature!

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