Comments on: Semantics Sunday: Fucktoy

By: chicory

chicory — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 04:53:58 +0000

I am definitely a fucktoy. Thanks for this post. I also really liked the post where you define cuntpet. I’ve been struggling with thinking about submission and what it means to me, and I’m realizing that I have a force fetish which would make me more of a cunt than a slave. Thank you for this vocabulary, already amorphous feelings are slipping into place.

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By: The Femmeinist Fucktoy » August in a Glance

The Femmeinist Fucktoy » August in a Glance — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 07:39:23 +0000

[...] it as well. Along the same lines, the Semantic Sunday post which I have yet to mention was about my relation to the term fucktoy, one of the aspects of my cuntpet identity, and explained my own definition of it (of [...]

By: Ayla

Ayla — Tue, 19 Aug 2008 22:17:14 +0000

That is a lovely definition of fucktoys. I can surely find myself in it.

By: Scarlet Lotus St. Syr

Scarlet Lotus St. Syr — Tue, 19 Aug 2008 20:08:07 +0000

@Amber (tieyou_topme): Thank you sweetie! I’m really digging the new layout myself. I think I need a new masthead, though, but that’s to be expected. I was getting tired of the old one, and it seemed like a good time for a change!

I agree that “toy” still denotes use by another, but I think that also comes down to how we classify “use” as well. I’m not sure, it’s very possible that I may be reaching here, trying to justify the use of the term fucktoy while also embracing my Domina side is a little difficult, but it also all comes down to semantics. I don’t have it 100% figured out yet.

By: Amber (tieyou_topme)

Amber (tieyou_topme) — Tue, 19 Aug 2008 04:10:45 +0000

Oh, and I forgot to mention – LOVE the new layout!

By: Amber (tieyou_topme)

Amber (tieyou_topme) — Tue, 19 Aug 2008 04:09:16 +0000

I’m definitely with you in that toys are not just inanimate objects, that they can do wonderful things in their own right, but the term “toy” to me still denotes use by another, even if the “toy” isn’t just lying down and passively taking it.

As of right now I wouldn’t classify myself a fucktoy. Now, whenever it is I manage to find someone who awakens my inner sub, that may change. ;)